After having long discussions with my family over the weekend, I have decided to pursue other jobs. I will keep Cadence as a distant possibility, but if I get another decent offer in the meantime, I will definitely take it. Like a lot of the other posts, I had a hard time dealing with the lack of benefits, but was willing to still go for it. Now that issues have come up, I see this as a personal wake-up call to look elsewhere. I really didn't like the idea of giving up my car and 401k match. I estimated that without my 401k match, I would lose about 14k per year. I have a 2 year old BMW at home that my husband used to drive and I wouldn't even be able to use it. When I look back, there have been many red flags and signs not to take this job, but I really like a lot of the people that are currently onboard. Now I have decided this truly isn't the opportunity for me and I am hoping to get something else. I have contacted some of my old recruiters on Friday and have some good leads already. They will be shocked I am not taking the job.