anonymous
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anonymous
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I think you’re confused on a few things. First, these aren’t your lunches; they are NNI’s lunches. Your DBM or RBD can attend these anytime they want to. You’re not being ‘pressured’ into anything - it’s just part of your job (and part of theirs). Let people do their jobs without crying about it.
And, if your manager is sharing the details of conversations like that with ‘a few of his close reps’, then you have a bad manager. I’m sure you like him/her a lot, but they are sharing information about private conversations that they should never share, which is in poor character. And, even without knowing the situation, I can say with 100% certainty that the RBD didn’t tell him she wanted a mole in the District. He’s sharing his interpretation of the conversation, and he’s probably a bit pissed that he didn’t get his preferred candidate through, so he’s a bit bitter. Again, more signs of a bad manager. Your issue here isn’t your RBD; it’s your manager saying shitty things about your RBD.
You misread original post, it isnt about the DBM or the RBD.
However, just for the record if an office doesnt want the manager to attend lunch etc. that is where the hammer comes down.