In the words of bugs bunny, "What a maroon." I have been in the industry since before there were dinner speaker programs. When they started, doctors could bring their wives. Attendance was pretty good. Then we had to have a separate activity for spouses when the lecture began and still attendance was pretty good. Then spouses could not come unless they were a health care provider. Now attendance was only if it was a new and unique product. So we started to pay doctors for their time to attend and attendance rose. That stopped and attendance dropped like a rock unless it was a new and unique product. Actually, attendance was getting difficult even when we paid them to attend.
My doctors have invited me to parties and weddings. I played golf with them. That was allowed at one time. I was called in the middle of the night to make an emergency delivery of phentolamine to a hospital. I was called on a Saturday afternoon from the ER by a cardiologist asking advice about administering IV Lopressor to an acute MI patient. But if I asked a busy HVP to come to my 20th Diovan program, the answer was sure, I would like nothing better than spend an evening with you to hear something I already know about from the same speaker who says the same things about your competitor when they speak for them. I know my spouse will welcome me gone another evening as well since I only see patients 60 hours a week and spend another 15 hours on call backs and paperwork. Yeah put me down. I can hardly wait. But I am sure you have such fantastic relationships and your doctors have such respect for you, they are probably asking, "Hey, when is your next dinner program, I would love to come."