Proving the point about generation gaps. Do you really need compassion and understanding out of an employer? Do you think your parents had compassion and understanding in their jobs? Well, you probably came from a broken home or were spoiled and are accustomed to being coddled. Many younger professionals have unrealistic expectations from employers. We are in the age of entitlement - where people want employers to pay them much money, take care of them personally and professionally, promote them and tell them they are wonderful. A utopia. You will be happy about what Obama is building. You can work for the government and fit right in. Some Managers and Upper Managers have flaws and some have low character and can be disingenuous but that is everywhere and in any company. That is a people issue not a company one. In my 4 years, I've seen them come and go. Just hold to your standards and don't concern yourself with "them". It's unhealthy.