I think he made the right decision leaving......I mean come on once you have kids it all sucks. Everytime you go to a BBQ all everyone says is "It's all about the kids....the kids.....the kids.....the kids....screw that. I am a 30 year old male married for 4 years, 1 child. I already feel dead. I remember those days in high school and college and ealy 20's....the adventure.....the parties...getting wasted with the primary objective of landing some new pussy for the evening......It was awsome. I already feel dead. One vagina for the rest of my life....great!! What was I thinking. Don't get me wrong, I love the wife...she's fun....but there's no adventure.....we'll have more kids soon and I'll leave in 10 years......don't think twice about it bro.....just go and live YOUR life.
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Considering abandoning wife and kids & debts
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I think he made the right decision leaving......I mean come on once you have kids it all sucks. Everytime you go to a BBQ all everyone says is "It's all about the kids....the kids.....the kids.....the kids....screw that. I am a 30 year old male married for 4 years, 1 child. I already feel dead. I remember those days in high school and college and ealy 20's....the adventure.....the parties...getting wasted with the primary objective of landing some new pussy for the evening......It was awsome. I already feel dead. One vagina for the rest of my life....great!! What was I thinking. Don't get me wrong, I love the wife...she's fun....but there's no adventure.....we'll have more kids soon and I'll leave in 10 years......don't think twice about it bro.....just go and live YOUR life.
Hey, wait a minute. YOU 'chose' this life and 'had' those kids.....what, you think you're owed something??? YOU OWE YOUR FAMILY THE ORIGINAL COMMITMENT YOU MADE. You got into this of your own volition. And at the end of it all, it is not about arguing with those of us who disagree....it will be about living with your ultimate selfish choice, as you come to see the destruction you will have undoubtably caused your family. Get some counseling with your situation and try and work it out.
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- Walking Eagle Oct 03, 2007 at 05:53: PM
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It is your own fault if you already feel dead. Grow the fuck up. You can't go back to being a teenager or frat rat. If you intend to leave, DO NOT have more kids. It is unfair to them and to your wife. Leave now, pay less child support over a shorter period of time. Why don't assholes like you think about these things before you get married and have kids?
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- Walking Eagle Oct 03, 2007 at 06:07: PM
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The whole world is damn near devoid of people of understand committment, who have integrity, who have morals, who have business ethics. Major downhill slide. There was actually a time when corporations felt bad when cutbacks were required and tried to find those displaced work with other companies or got them into re-training programs. They devised termination packages based on tenure and salary that would help them have the time and resources to find new jobs.
The problem today? Corporations are run by people with the same morals and committment as the assholes who come on here bragging about running out on their families.....
The problem today? Corporations are run by people with the same morals and committment as the assholes who come on here bragging about running out on their families.....
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Walking E your repressed homosexual latent repessed issues are evidently showing again in full, ans latently aggressives force. You're a very ill(i.e. medication ad confinement, conseling needs based) individual who will present aggression against anyone he comes into contact with and cannot have initial dominating homosexual relations with. Please help yourself and even more importantly help those you will come to harm physically and physically. If you do indeed desire to be proacitve please, please contact me so I can help. Bless you and please ask Jesus ask your savior for now and forever
Right on, Mr. Eagle. Poster from above a few spaces.
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- Walking Eagle Oct 03, 2007 at 11:23: PM
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Oh Great, another 13 year old with his parents text book from abnormal psych. This bozo can't even COPY stuff and spell it correctly. He has no comprehension of punctuation beyond about 4th grade.
THIS is a person who wants to help ME????? I don't think so....
Usually women put on weight because they are VERY UNHAPPY and I bet it has something to do with YOU. My guess is that you are no prize either, she will probably be better off without you. Then she will lose the weight, be gorgeous and you will be alone, eating your heart out. Lots of luck.
You are pathetic and you will end up a very lonely, depressed, alcoholic someday. Living alone...eating spam out of a can and your kids won't even visit you. Did you ever think that you and your wife could find some meaning to life together....mark my words, you will feel "dead" no matter what you are doing or who you are with because you choose to be dead. It has nothing to do with your children (God help them with you for a father) or your wife. They will all be better off without you.
You say twice that you feel dead. Please do your family and the entire world a huge favor and do something to make this a REALITY, not just a feeling.
Re: UPDATE- Considering abandoning wife and kids & debts
Another update from the OP: New life has been better than I ever would have imagined. Yes at first it was a struggle getting use to a new identity and living a new ife thousands of miles where I had always lived. I have excelled in my new pharma position moved to a much nicer apartment and am now in district manager training! I also have a beautiful 25 year old new girlfriend who loves me just for who I am. To all you negative naysayers out there just remeber I had the guts to make a change, a BIG change. You did not and live in a world of self-loathing and self-denial. You only live once and I am going 100% balls out. Good luck to all of you!
Another update from the OP: New life has been better than I ever would have imagined. Yes at first it was a struggle getting use to a new identity and living a new ife thousands of miles where I had always lived. I have excelled in my new pharma position moved to a much nicer apartment and am now in district manager training! I also have a beautiful 25 year old new girlfriend who loves me just for who I am. To all you negative naysayers out there just remeber I had the guts to make a change, a BIG change. You did not and live in a world of self-loathing and self-denial. You only live once and I am going 100% balls out. Good luck to all of you!
I have to say that I love the fact that the OP is applauded for his actions, but the woman who put a child in foster care that wasn't even hers is villified. Child abandonment is child abandonment. It's wrong, no matter who does it.
Keep coming back OP and telling everyone how wonderful your life is now. Maybe sooner or later you'll manage to convince yourself that what you did is OK. Isn't that really why you keep coming back to try and convince everyone here?
And hey, if this life doesn't work out, you can always create a new one again right? Leave a path of wreckage? Because who cares about anyone else? It's all about you, right? Thing is, you have to "die" a bit to create a new you. So how's that living? Leaving behind everything? That's what you call living? No responsability? And what would your new 25 year old think if she knew that you were still married and had kids 1800 miles away that you abandoned? So you're living all right. In a fantasy of your own creation that will shatter sooner or later. No, I don't envy you and your so-called "freedom".
Keep coming back OP and telling everyone how wonderful your life is now. Maybe sooner or later you'll manage to convince yourself that what you did is OK. Isn't that really why you keep coming back to try and convince everyone here?
And hey, if this life doesn't work out, you can always create a new one again right? Leave a path of wreckage? Because who cares about anyone else? It's all about you, right? Thing is, you have to "die" a bit to create a new you. So how's that living? Leaving behind everything? That's what you call living? No responsability? And what would your new 25 year old think if she knew that you were still married and had kids 1800 miles away that you abandoned? So you're living all right. In a fantasy of your own creation that will shatter sooner or later. No, I don't envy you and your so-called "freedom".
I really do greatly admire the OP. He has the balls to do what very few would. Don't be discouraged OP by the whiners on here!
I'm the one who wrote this back in 07'. Screw all you a$$hole feminists who replied to my post calling me an alcoholic or childish or any of that constructive crap. Still with the wife, still feel dead every day. I appreciate your support with my brand doc!
Re: UPDATE- Considering abandoning wife and kids & debts
Boy, would I love to be in the same room with you when your KARMA comes back to bite you in the ass. May not be soon, but it will happen, you dead beat Dad.....can understand things not working out with your wife but to abandon your children and boast about it is beyond my comprehension.
You are the type of guy that is everywoman and child's worst nightmare: reneges on life's responsibilities when the going gets tough just to leave and let the woman deal with the aftermath. PU_ _ Y!!!!!
Your parents must be proud, can only imagine the "pieces of work" they must be to raise the anti-christ such as you.
Boy, would I love to be in the same room with you when your KARMA comes back to bite you in the ass. May not be soon, but it will happen, you dead beat Dad.....can understand things not working out with your wife but to abandon your children and boast about it is beyond my comprehension.
You are the type of guy that is everywoman and child's worst nightmare: reneges on life's responsibilities when the going gets tough just to leave and let the woman deal with the aftermath. PU_ _ Y!!!!!
Your parents must be proud, can only imagine the "pieces of work" they must be to raise the anti-christ such as you.
OP, you are clearly a complete loser. Do you actually think that you will never have to pay the consequences of what you've done to your wife and children? Did you ever stop to think that maybe your wife wasn't all that happy either?! Do you run up debt to buy things that impress others and then file bankruptcy in order to not pay it back? That is the type of person you are. A coward that is afraid to actually work through a problem and realize the contribution they made to the problem. The world is full of people like you that live for the moment and don't give a shit about anyone but yourself. You are a sham and you know it.
well what you are saying is true, but if the OP is savvy he won't have to pay a dime for anything. Also, if he really tries hard and concentrates on forget, he can even overcome the guilt of running out on his children. I did the same thing 2 years ago. Now I have new pussy every month, new excitement and new adventures. Sure I left an adorable little girl behind. I think about her at times, but if I really force myself I can simply dissassociate with the emotion. Alcohol really helps to. It helps me get new pussy and it helps me forget the old me. I love my new life..............naysayers, bite me
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- Walking Eagle Jun 16, 2008 at 09:27: PM
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We are supposed to believe you abandoned your entire life, job, and family, moved to a new area, created a new identity, and got a job in pharma with no life history or job history. Just how gullible do you think we are?????
I applaud you too. Now your wife can find a REAL MAN to step up and be the father your child DESERVES. Would love to be there in 20 years when reality smacks you silly and your wife's child sees for his/her self how fortunate they are to never have truly known you.
Your new found freedom is but an illusion.