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Considering abandoning wife and kids & debts
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Walking Eagle
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- Walking Eagle Mar 17, 2007 at 12:36: AM
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Is "noob" slang for newbie? Does that make you a "non" for anonymous and NONentity?
Re: UPDATE- Considering abandoning wife and kids & debts
Another update from the OP. The new job worked out great but I have started a very lucretive side business that is all cash. I did hear from a friend back in my old town that my wife and kids are doing very well. All you negative "I would never do that" need to get a grip. At least I have the balls to really live. How many of you can truly say that??
Another update from the OP. The new job worked out great but I have started a very lucretive side business that is all cash. I did hear from a friend back in my old town that my wife and kids are doing very well. All you negative "I would never do that" need to get a grip. At least I have the balls to really live. How many of you can truly say that??
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- Walking Eagle Sep 26, 2007 at 08:38: PM
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Re: UPDATE- Considering abandoning wife and kids & debts
Playground coward. Run and hide from the problems that YOU created. Leave the innocent kids to fend for themselves. No question that they and their mom are MUCH better off without an asshole like you in their lives, even if you did pay child support. I pity the woman who is having to pay off YOUR debts that you dumped on her. Fucking asshole coward spineless motherfucker. Does your mom have any idea which trick furnished the rancid sperm that led to YOU?
The world breathes a collective sigh of relief, you are happy, o.p.... when you made the decision to have kids way back then.... that was your decision, did your kids ask to be brought into this world??? I can understand you leaving your wife, OK, but you abandoning your kids is unexcusable, cowardly, selfish, and just a piece of shit move. You know who has to eventually pays down the line when shit heads like you don't man up?? Us Taxpayers....If your wife can't support all the kids you made, who is going to foot the bill?? Where do states get the money for those programs?? The cool part, is that Karma is a bitch, and in time Karma will come back your way and you will be screwed .... we don't need dirt bags like you around anyway. Now the world breathes a collective sigh of relief....
I actually agree with the OP. You have only 1 life to live. All of you haters need to watch the movie "Into The Wild" to understand freedom and discovery.
Good luck OP, you got a huge set of balls!
Good luck OP, you got a huge set of balls!
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- Walking Eagle Sep 26, 2007 at 10:49: PM
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Freedom and discovery. BULLSHIT. FAMILY, CHILDREN. Finish what you start. Create children---take care of them even if your circumstances end up with you ont living with them or they with you. This guy, and apparently YOU as well, have NO balls. If the wife turns into a royal bitch, if you piss away your money and get in deep debt, if SHE causes the debt---divorce, yes. BUT take care of YOUR kids. You may have only one life tolive, but if you have already created life, you OWE them both monitarily and emotionally.
Yeah, what's up with that?.......I think its shitty society and the liberal media that puts all this shit in our minds; as if it's okay to cheat, lie, and bail. We are all poisoned with desensitization if you ask me. Very true words.
Re: UPDATE- Considering abandoning wife and kids & debts
Not me! I would tell the kids exactly what happened, that 'dad' was a scumbag and deserted the family. Get the kids counseling so they understand it is dad's shortcomings, not theirs, but prepare them so they don't later call mom a liar and jump in to dear old dad's arms when he resurfaces. Because he WILL resurface when the kids are grown and successful and don't need a father anymore, but when relationships with kids are more about friendship than responsibility. Prepare them well so they never let this loser back in. Teach them he's a sperm donor, not a father.
Whew, thank goodness you came back here to give us an update. We've all been wondering what happened to you (actually I completely forgot about your silly thread but thanks for bumping it up as there might be 1 person who was interested).
I bet your wife is happier than she's ever been and she told the kids that daddy died and is in Heaven with their dead hamster. That's what I would do.
Not me! I would tell the kids exactly what happened, that 'dad' was a scumbag and deserted the family. Get the kids counseling so they understand it is dad's shortcomings, not theirs, but prepare them so they don't later call mom a liar and jump in to dear old dad's arms when he resurfaces. Because he WILL resurface when the kids are grown and successful and don't need a father anymore, but when relationships with kids are more about friendship than responsibility. Prepare them well so they never let this loser back in. Teach them he's a sperm donor, not a father.
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- Walking Eagle Sep 27, 2007 at 12:07: PM
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Does not matter. He created them, he is responsible for them. Period>>>
I agree with the OP. It's nice to see someone with the stones to do something independent for a cahnge. So many of you fat, middle aged fuckers in pharma are so unhappy in your marriages you walk around for years with a hump on your back waiting to die. WQell the OP is different, he decided to live.
"Into the Wild" is about a young guy with no kids. 99% of those who don't support the OP maintain that this is the issue - the kids. Seems like a basic responsibility of being a parent is to not fuck up your kids - it's not about just you anymore, my friend....
Fuck that! You gotta live life to the fullest! The brats will be OK and his fat, nagging wife sounds like a real bitch anyway.
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- Walking Eagle Sep 27, 2007 at 04:06: PM
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That bastard is already dead but just doesn't know it. So are you if you agree with the abandonment of children you create. To other males who feel as the OP and other assholes who feel he is a hero for taking off, creating an illegal new identity, GET A VASECTOMY NOW!!!!! At least you will only be shitting on ONE person and not a bunch of innocent kids.
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- Walking Eagle Sep 27, 2007 at 04:08: PM
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Who knew satan's minions had access to the net?? You give hedonists a worse name.
Walking you have some severe anger problems and likely one of the miserable hump ridden married drones the PP writes about. You need to address your anger issues before they consume you further and you hurt someone and/or yourself. My guess is that you entered into a loveless marriage many years ago and feel a great rage from repressed latent homosexuality issues from your youth (sexual abuse by a dominate male figure). Your downward spiral and depression over a lost and unproductive career in pharma sales at your age apparently add to your depression relating to your loveless marriage and conflicting attraction to men. Please for your own sake and the sake of starngers that you interact with, get some help before the violence occurs. Thank you.
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- Walking Eagle Sep 27, 2007 at 07:53: PM
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You are 100% wrong in your analysis. You want to know the source of my anger and indignation? Here it is. It has nothing to do with me or my marriage. MY son worked with a young lady with three kids (youngest about 6 months old) who had been abandoned by her husband when took off to meet a woman he met on the net. Left his wife and three kids with a new mortgage, car payment, etc. It took three years to find his sorry ass. He was working in LA as graphic artist making plenty good money. Finally started paying her a bit over $200 per month. She and my son fell in love, married and had a kid of their own. In the 12 years they have been together, I can count on my fingers the number of times that sorry lump of shit has seen or called them or even sent a birthday card (much less a gift or a few dollars for school clothes). The state caught him once at his mom's about 45 minutes from where his kids were living. He was ordered to pony up $12,000 in back child support and begin regular payments through the state of CA. Never sent a penny. Pulled the trick that the op refers to: bought the fake ID and SS card with new name and got hired by another film studio. My son took on HIS responsibilty: feed, houses, clothes, loves, coaches, scouts, etc those three as if they were his biological kids. When the sorry, dead beat, asshole, negligent, worthless, asshole, coward, spineless, motherfucker DOES meet them when they visit his mom, they come home so excited even though they know exactly what he did to them.
So, yeah, I have anger issues in regard to idiots who abandon their families. I perfectly understand divorce. Divorced a long time ago myself. But I NEVER neglected my kids, never let them do without so that I could splurge on crap. I wasn't perfect by any means, but they knew and still know now hat I was always there for them and would sacrifice damn near anything for them.
NOW do you understand my anger issues toward the slime of the world that can simply walk away from their kids??????????
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- Walking Eagle Sep 27, 2007 at 07:55: PM
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By the way, the best counseling I could get would be to spend about 15 minutes with my daughter-in-law's ex. I would be willing to do the same for anyone who has done the same thing. I would feel SO much better. Trust me.