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Considering abandoning wife and kids & debts

We are supposed to believe you abandoned your entire life, job, and family, moved to a new area, created a new identity, and got a job in pharma with no life history or job history. Just how gullible do you think we are?????

Clearly this thread shows that there are A LOT of stupid and gullible people that believe this loser's story.
 




Re: UPDATE- Considering abandoning wife and kids & debts

Another update from the OP: New life has been better than I ever would have imagined. Yes at first it was a struggle getting use to a new identity and living a new ife thousands of miles where I had always lived. I have excelled in my new pharma position moved to a much nicer apartment and am now in district manager training! I also have a beautiful 25 year old new girlfriend who loves me just for who I am. To all you negative naysayers out there just remeber I had the guts to make a change, a BIG change. You did not and live in a world of self-loathing and self-denial. You only live once and I am going 100% balls out. Good luck to all of you!


Sure, sure. This OP is just trying to fantasize. If he really did create a new identity, the FBI would be tracing this post to his email address.
Men like this like to fantasize about what life would be like if they left their family.

Trust me, he wouldn't have gotten a pharma job and he wouldn't be feeling groovy. The 25 year old would suddenly discover his past, break up with him and call his wife. Wait until he tries to get remarried. He would have to have a record of divorce.

You people who imagine life without your family are just selfish whimps with no responsibility.

Men who abandon thier families usually try to reconnect when the kids are old enough and have good jobs, then they try to prey on them!
 




I can tell you an absolute fact that you can (and thousands do) create a completely new idebtity along with valid ID and background. The internet is a wonderful thing but like many other things in life you have to be smart enough to use it wisely. Most of the above posters fall into the not smart enough category. If you don't think you can create a new, valid ID, then you are a fool.

Good luck OP, I am proud that someone in this industry is smart and has the guts to do what you did. Don't pay attention to the mindless gimps on here, they are just jealous and gutless drones.
 








well what you are saying is true, but if the OP is savvy he won't have to pay a dime for anything. Also, if he really tries hard and concentrates on forget, he can even overcome the guilt of running out on his children. I did the same thing 2 years ago. Now I have new pussy every month, new excitement and new adventures. Sure I left an adorable little girl behind. I think about her at times, but if I really force myself I can simply dissassociate with the emotion. Alcohol really helps to. It helps me get new pussy and it helps me forget the old me. I love my new life..............naysayers, bite me

First, I think you are a troll. Second, I HOPE you are a troll, mostly for your "adorable little girl's" sake.

I hope you realize the the new pussy you are getting every month is going to be your little darling twenty years from now - looking to fill the daddy shaped hole that you left in her heart. How hard are you for the hot new ass now?

She can't "dissociate" (please note the proper spelling, but I won't rake you over it since you were probably drinking) from the emotion.

I was going to ask you how it felt to know that you were securing yourself a spot in hell, but then I realized that you have no soul and therefore the question doesn't really apply.

Enjoy yourself!
 




First, I think you are a troll. Second, I HOPE you are a troll, mostly for your "adorable little girl's" sake.

I hope you realize the the new pussy you are getting every month is going to be your little darling twenty years from now - looking to fill the daddy shaped hole that you left in her heart. How hard are you for the hot new ass now?

She can't "dissociate" (please note the proper spelling, but I won't rake you over it since you were probably drinking) from the emotion.

I was going to ask you how it felt to know that you were securing yourself a spot in hell, but then I realized that you have no soul and therefore the question doesn't really apply.

Enjoy yourself!

Aww shut the fuck up already you fugly loser. Your life was over years ago and now you're just playing out the string. You're just another anonymous loser. Bite the pipe(exhaust pipe from your Taurus with the engine running), no one will miss you because no one really knew you were here.
 




First, I think you are a troll. Second, I HOPE you are a troll, mostly for your "adorable little girl's" sake.

I hope you realize the the new pussy you are getting every month is going to be your little darling twenty years from now - looking to fill the daddy shaped hole that you left in her heart. How hard are you for the hot new ass now?

She can't "dissociate" (please note the proper spelling, but I won't rake you over it since you were probably drinking) from the emotion.

I was going to ask you how it felt to know that you were securing yourself a spot in hell, but then I realized that you have no soul and therefore the question doesn't really apply.

Enjoy yourself!

First of all, I am not a troll. Secondly, I never spell check very often on cafe pharma, and although I am an astute individual, I am a mediocre speller as you have pointed out. Thirdly, I enjoy the sexual relations I am having with multiple 25-32 year old partners (all of whom are not aware of one another, god bless match.com). My wife is 37 like me. I do not know why, but despite the fact that I enjoy my time with her and have had an attraction to her for many years, sex with the same old body just got old and felt unnatural. I have one life to life and I am going to live it my way. I care about my daughter, but what can I say?...I am weak willed. I pay the girls's child support...back off...........you're just jealous. .....enjoy your repetitive, mundane, boring life wit the same old fart day in and day out..........sheep!
 




First of all, I am not a troll. Secondly, I never spell check very often on cafe pharma, and although I am an astute individual, I am a mediocre speller as you have pointed out. Thirdly, I enjoy the sexual relations I am having with multiple 25-32 year old partners (all of whom are not aware of one another, god bless match.com). My wife is 37 like me. I do not know why, but despite the fact that I enjoy my time with her and have had an attraction to her for many years, sex with the same old body just got old and felt unnatural. I have one life to life and I am going to live it my way. I care about my daughter, but what can I say?...I am weak willed. I pay the girls's child support...back off...........you're just jealous. .....enjoy your repetitive, mundane, boring life wit the same old fart day in and day out..........sheep!

Ummm...the definition of astute has nothing to do with spelling; if you mean simply that you are shrewd and calculating where your own interests are concerned, then yes - you certainly are astute.

Thanks for the unsolicited info regarding your multiple partners and wife. I never said a word about them - that's another subject.

Only your daughter: I wonder how she felt on Father's Day? Hope she was able to dissociate her emotions from you. I'm sure it was fine since you pay the child support.
 




Aww shut the fuck up already you fugly loser. Your life was over years ago and now you're just playing out the string. You're just another anonymous loser. Bite the pipe(exhaust pipe from your Taurus with the engine running), no one will miss you because no one really knew you were here.

You knew I was here!
 




Ummm...the definition of astute has nothing to do with spelling; if you mean simply that you are shrewd and calculating where your own interests are concerned, then yes - you certainly are astute.

Thanks for the unsolicited info regarding your multiple partners and wife. I never said a word about them - that's another subject.

Only your daughter: I wonder how she felt on Father's Day? Hope she was able to dissociate her emotions from you. I'm sure it was fine since you pay the child support.

Oh yes I am cunning and clever as well...shut up about all the excessive vocabulary words to make yourself feel better......by the way I don't pay child support......I have an excellent accountant..........you typical conformist feminazi swine.
 




Ope here with another update. It is going better than I imagined. Now use to new name and location. Great, hot girlfriend and now just months away from becoming a DM and making $130K.

To all of you that are narrow minded and jealous, GROW UP!

I had the guts to make the change and it really paid off big time.
 








Ope here with another update. It is going better than I imagined. Now use to new name and location. Great, hot girlfriend and now just months away from becoming a DM and making $130K.

To all of you that are narrow minded and jealous, GROW UP!

I had the guts to make the change and it really paid off big time.

I applaud you fella! Your story is an inspiration to so many of us who wake up to fat balding cows (who were pretty 20 years and 3 kids ago) and dog saliva. I'm thinking of beatin feet myself. Do you ever see your kids or are you totally out of the picture?
 




I applaud you fella! Your story is an inspiration to so many of us who wake up to fat balding cows (who were pretty 20 years and 3 kids ago) and dog saliva. I'm thinking of beatin feet myself. Do you ever see your kids or are you totally out of the picture?

To the two of you. . . And when this one gets old and pumps out a kid then what? You are a fool. I am one of those old women and I can tell you looking back on my life I wish I had spent more time with my kids and family and making their lives better rather than the selfish path I chose. You both will regret this type of decision when you are 50 - a lot. Don't say I didn't warn you. All your evils, your selfishness, your spoiled-ness and greed will come back to you. You play; you pay. And, it might just be with your soul. Enjoy.
 




To the two of you. . . And when this one gets old and pumps out a kid then what? You are a fool. I am one of those old women and I can tell you looking back on my life I wish I had spent more time with my kids and family and making their lives better rather than the selfish path I chose. You both will regret this type of decision when you are 50 - a lot. Don't say I didn't warn you. All your evils, your selfishness, your spoiled-ness and greed will come back to you. You play; you pay. And, it might just be with your soul. Enjoy.

You sound like a monster. Are you one of those typical female DMs who drives everyone crazy and has no life but her job? It's no wonder your husand left you. You are garbage so shut up with all the mystical, magical karma talk and go create some shareholder value at the expense of your colleague........kunt!
 




You sound like a monster. Are you one of those typical female DMs who drives everyone crazy and has no life but her job? It's no wonder your husand left you. You are garbage so shut up with all the mystical, magical karma talk and go create some shareholder value at the expense of your colleague........kunt!

Good God, you are an idiot. Not a single guess is even half right. You are one angry fucked up SOB for such a "happy" fulfilled guy! I wouldn't lift a finger to help this disgusting industry create shareholder value! If I had my way, I would love to see this entire industry sink like the Titanic.

Oh, wait, you did get one thing right. I am a CUNT!
 




Ope here with another update. It is going better than I imagined. Now use to new name and location. Great, hot girlfriend and now just months away from becoming a DM and making $130K.

To all of you that are narrow minded and jealous, GROW UP!

I had the guts to make the change and it really paid off big time.

BS ... 'Cause if this gig was really working out like you say, you'd be laying low and wanting as little publicity as possible. 'Cause old wifey and her attorneys (as well as the child support agencies) would be making a special case of trying to find you ... esp. if the official in charge of the child support agency is up for re-election soon.

Bringing in a scum like you is always good for votes at election time.

But if it is working, good luck and enjoy it while it lasts.
 








this is why I...Internist extrodinaire..roflmao..am Single! Actually it's b/c like most MDS I'm socially retarded and never had time for anything in trianing. Am also living on redneck Riviera these days.

Neil Straus wrote a book about survivalism. He got citizenship after a long hassle in St Kitts but Kittittians have electric power problems. You could also Rat on a "fat Tony" and join witness protection. Monogamy is an unnatural state and who can stand kids???