I’m dealing with this badly for almost two years in a back office function where everyone stayed too long and the lead aggressive bully and passive aggressive bully followers of the group developed savvy manipulative ways to rule their inefficient roost, create lies together, coordinated in false performance statements, fighting off change, which I guess I represented to the mob members. Ive spent countless weekend days reading articles and books about bullying and mobbing (never even had heard that term before last year), motivating myself to try and just ignore it as advice says (keep your head down and don’t fight back until you can move on, which I guess doesn’t work for a field role) or strategizing what I would do with all the documentation i compiled. I also follow #workplacebullying on LinkedIn for some sense of community to not feel so isolated and to help me not take it personally. This thread pulled up in my search today.
It’s horrible and so depressing, just kills all joy for life. Not sure what to do - trapped in the suburbs without other companies nearby, stuck due to my spouse’s job, trying to be hopeful about moving to another group. But the longer I’m here the more chances they have to discredit me, and they’ve cut me out of almost all work and meeting - more so since we went remote.
I feel for everyone experiencing some version of this. It’s hard to shake in down time.