What Happened To The MILF Thread?

What's pitiful is that you think people are sitting around waiting for the opportunity to have sex with someone else. That isn't the case at all. What happens is, you're assigned a meeting (not your choice), you're apart, the opportunity presents itself and you end up enjoying a relaxing roll in the hay with someone. I's like a day at the spa or a mini vacation. It isn't that big of a deal. Then you go home and life goes back to normal. And this is true for both a man and for a woman.

My husband and I both are in pharma. We both go to meetings. I have no idea if he has ever had a 'sexperience' while at a meeting and he has no idea if I have. Neither of us has ever asked - and - if a few day fling has ever occurred, it certainly hasn't affected our marriage. In fact it probably strengthened it.

This is one of the biggest crocks of shit I've ever read here. You're 'assigned to a meeting and an opportunity presents itself?' You can't wait for those meetings hoping and praying that 'an opportunity' presents itself. You are a sick fuck. lLfe goes back to normal? Probably in your pea brain.
 






What was pitiful was watching my husband getting ready for those meetings, new underwear, haircut, cologne, trimming his pubes, picking out his best shirts and ties. One time I saw a box of condoms he didn't hide too well in his luggage, but at least he wore them when 'the opportunity presented itself.' Not enough showers in the world can wash the smell off. I wanted to throw up when he came home. We took turns in pharma because of kids, not always having the same jobs at the same time. I went to plenty of those meetings and had plenty of opportunities presented to me. I took up a couple and when it came down to it, it was not what I wanted to live with. He never changed and I just moved on. I'm with someone now who doesn't need to sneak around because he and I have a way that we find mutually works for us. Too bad for my ex. His new wife cheats on him, all our friends know. What goes around.


I have been in your position. I watched the same thing when my spouse got ready for those 'meetings.' How stupid can anyone be? I guess I was until I wasn't. Pharma men in general are not to be trusted., MILF. Plenty of responsible and good guys around. Never waste your time.
 






What's pitiful is that you think people are sitting around waiting for the opportunity to have sex with someone else. That isn't the case at all. What happens is, you're assigned a meeting (not your choice), you're apart, the opportunity presents itself and you end up enjoying a relaxing roll in the hay with someone. I's like a day at the spa or a mini vacation. It isn't that big of a deal. Then you go home and life goes back to normal. And this is true for both a man and for a woman.

My husband and I both are in pharma. We both go to meetings. I have no idea if he has ever had a 'sexperience' while at a meeting and he has no idea if I have. Neither of us has ever asked - and - if a few day fling has ever occurred, it certainly hasn't affected our marriage. In fact it probably strengthened it.

Then you're both pretty stupid.
 






Then I would say you are a lucky person. My husband would never go for that. I would and would love to try it with another woman and with another man. In the meantime since hubby won't go for it, I'm stuck.

I agree, I'm a lucky man and the thing is, since she feels the same way you do, she feels she's lucky too. I never thought anything like this would happen but I'm sure glad it did. Life is short and this is not a big deal.
 






Why wait for an out of town meeting? There are ways. You obviously think it's not sneaking around but are making the best out of a bad situation.

Most every man and most every woman would like a different sexual partner once in awhile. Even just once a year. So that's why they wait. It's perfect, out of your environment and will not be discovered by anyone. Why fool around at home when you can sow your wild oats once a year at a National POA. I always left a day early and so did my 'work husband'. We each rented our own room out-of-pocket, checked out the next day and checked back in as everyone was arriving into our 'assigned rooms'. We did that for quite a few years. No one was ever the wiser. It was very therapeutic and didn't hurt a thing...
 






Most every man and most every woman would like a different sexual partner once in awhile. Even just once a year. So that's why they wait. It's perfect, out of your environment and will not be discovered by anyone. Why fool around at home when you can sow your wild oats once a year at a National POA. I always left a day early and so did my 'work husband'. We each rented our own room out-of-pocket, checked out the next day and checked back in as everyone was arriving into our 'assigned rooms'. We did that for quite a few years. No one was ever the wiser. It was very therapeutic and didn't hurt a thing...

What if your husband found out? Isn't that always a risk you would take?
I've been presented with this opportunity several times and met someone I almost said yes to. I've known him for years and really wanted to take him up on it but was scared to because I liked him a lot. Like, wasn't sure I would want to leave it. We are both married with 2 kids and neither wants to cause that mess but I'm not sure starting a fling wouldn't make me confused. After I decided not to, it f-ed up the friendship (my fault). I never thought I would cheat but this man has me knocked off my feet. I was scared shitless and wanted a second chance but he said we didn't need to go there. He acted like his feelings were the same as mine. I do love my spouse and kids but my sex life isn't great and I never experienced many others. My sons adore him.
I wish I would have done it, but this probably isn't a good idea if your feelings go beyond sex, huh?
I would love honest non-judgmental responses. I am really not a terrible woman.
 






Listen up! I'm a married woman who goes to meetings and seeks out the poor suckers who drool over me. I can't get enough at home so I like picking out good looking guys that do anything I want and go home feeling much more relaxed. Does that make me a dude?

I so want to do this. I've only had sex with two people, including my husband, and my sex drive is insatiable. My husband is older than me and doesn't want it much. It used to be great.
I never thought I'd cheat but if I could without getting caught or attached, I would.
 


















Most every man and most every woman would like a different sexual partner once in awhile. Even just once a year. So that's why they wait. It's perfect, out of your environment and will not be discovered by anyone. Why fool around at home when you can sow your wild oats once a year at a National POA. I always left a day early and so did my 'work husband'. We each rented our own room out-of-pocket, checked out the next day and checked back in as everyone was arriving into our 'assigned rooms'. We did that for quite a few years. No one was ever the wiser. It was very therapeutic and didn't hurt a thing...

Remember your moral behavior reflects who you are - - - honest and ethical or lying and sinful! Grow up and live a life that is not animalistic!!
 


















Who mentioned anything about having sex with animals?

This person is obviously from somewhere in the bible belt (or maybe Kansas) and their whole world depends upon them deciding 'proper human behavior' and trying to pass judgment on others based on their own personal views. Their argument fell apart right out of the gate when they tried the, "I'm a taxpayer," routine but fell apart quickly when they realized marriage licenses are issued by counties in states and ceremonies may or may not make any mention of sexual exclusivity. Simply put, they live in their own little bubble and it will simply blow away very, very soon.
 






Most every man and most every woman would like a different sexual partner once in awhile. Even just once a year. So that's why they wait. It's perfect, out of your environment and will not be discovered by anyone. Why fool around at home when you can sow your wild oats once a year at a National POA. I always left a day early and so did my 'work husband'. We each rented our own room out-of-pocket, checked out the next day and checked back in as everyone was arriving into our 'assigned rooms'. We did that for quite a few years. No one was ever the wiser. It was very therapeutic and didn't hurt a thing...

In your dreams. I think you are confusing this for the movie 'Same Time Next Year,' which pretty much dates you as being up there in years and wishful thinking. It's laughable the imaginary stories that people come up with here.
 






What was pitiful was watching my husband getting ready for those meetings, new underwear, haircut, cologne, trimming his pubes, picking out his best shirts and ties. One time I saw a box of condoms he didn't hide too well in his luggage, but at least he wore them when 'the opportunity presented itself.' Not enough showers in the world can wash the smell off. I wanted to throw up when he came home. We took turns in pharma because of kids, not always having the same jobs at the same time. I went to plenty of those meetings and had plenty of opportunities presented to me. I took up a couple and when it came down to it, it was not what I wanted to live with. He never changed and I just moved on. I'm with someone now who doesn't need to sneak around because he and I have a way that we find mutually works for us. Too bad for my ex. His new wife cheats on him, all our friends know. What goes around.

Some people are so predictable. Good thing you finally moved on.
 






Hell no, it makes you a woman who is honest with herself and doesn't bring home her frustrations, then take them out on everyone. Good for you.

Too bad you have to sneak around and lie and deceive your husband. She's honest with herself? LOL! Her poor trusting husband. You're disgusting. People can rationalize anything can't they?
 






When you're flown to a meeting that you'd really rather not go to, then crammed into a hotel that you'd rather not be in in a city you don't care for, it isn't exactly 'sneaking around', more like making the best out of a bad situation. I hooked up once a year with a rep from NYC at our annual POA for 4 years - so 4 times. They left the company so haven't seen that person since. Neither one misses the other but it was very good sex and the only good part of a bad week. I'm glad we had that together. It was fun.

I was also very happy to get home and would have preferred not to have gone each time. Sex isn't the only thing but it's a nice thing.

Why don't you just hire a hooker for the same amount of money instead of those pesky hotel bills?
 






This person is obviously from somewhere in the bible belt (or maybe Kansas) and their whole world depends upon them deciding 'proper human behavior' and trying to pass judgment on others based on their own personal views. Their argument fell apart right out of the gate when they tried the, "I'm a taxpayer," routine but fell apart quickly when they realized marriage licenses are issued by counties in states and ceremonies may or may not make any mention of sexual exclusivity. Simply put, they live in their own little bubble and it will simply blow away very, very soon.

This subject has really diverted from the original topic of MILFS.
 












Who mentioned anything about having sex with animals?

You are a SICK individual! What the post was saying that we should be able to control our sexual behavior and save the blessing of sex for our committed partner, spouse or steady lover. If we succumb to being an animal in heat, we are disgracing ourselves in the eyes of our creator. Grow up and commit to monogamous relationship!