What Happened To The MILF Thread?

Anonymous said:
You people are so warped in your thinking, government, religion, contracts. It's all bull. Whatever two people agree on, married or not, what is fair game for one should be the same for the other. It's pitiful that you use an excuse being out of town and out of mind. What if you found out your spouse couldn't wait for you to leave so they could do the same thing?
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What's pitiful is that you think people are sitting around waiting for the opportunity to have sex with someone else. That isn't the case at all. What happens is, you're assigned a meeting (not your choice), you're apart, the opportunity presents itself and you end up enjoying a relaxing roll in the hay with someone. I's like a day at the spa or a mini vacation. It isn't that big of a deal. Then you go home and life goes back to normal. And this is true for both a man and for a woman.

My husband and I both are in pharma. We both go to meetings. I have no idea if he has ever had a 'sexperience' while at a meeting and he has no idea if I have. Neither of us has ever asked - and - if a few day fling has ever occurred, it certainly hasn't affected our marriage. In fact it probably strengthened it.
 






Anonymous said:
What's pitiful is that you think people are sitting around waiting for the opportunity to have sex with someone else. That isn't the case at all. What happens is, you're assigned a meeting (not your choice), you're apart, the opportunity presents itself and you end up enjoying a relaxing roll in the hay with someone. I's like a day at the spa or a mini vacation. It isn't that big of a deal. Then you go home and life goes back to normal. And this is true for both a man and for a woman.

My husband and I both are in pharma. We both go to meetings. I have no idea if he has ever had a 'sexperience' while at a meeting and he has no idea if I have. Neither of us has ever asked - and - if a few day fling has ever occurred, it certainly hasn't affected our marriage. In fact it probably strengthened it.
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Now you sound like a man! Do you really think people don't know what their spouse is doing when they come home 'so relaxed' and life goes back to 'normal' but whatever excuse works for you. That life is behind me now, as is he. Shit like that usually deteriorates any kind of a marriage or relationship. I take responsibility for my part. Sneaking around is not a building block for a happy life.
 






Anonymous said:
What's pitiful is that you think people are sitting around waiting for the opportunity to have sex with someone else. That isn't the case at all. What happens is, you're assigned a meeting (not your choice), you're apart, the opportunity presents itself and you end up enjoying a relaxing roll in the hay with someone. I's like a day at the spa or a mini vacation. It isn't that big of a deal. Then you go home and life goes back to normal. And this is true for both a man and for a woman.

My husband and I both are in pharma. We both go to meetings. I have no idea if he has ever had a 'sexperience' while at a meeting and he has no idea if I have. Neither of us has ever asked - and - if a few day fling has ever occurred, it certainly hasn't affected our marriage. In fact it probably strengthened it.
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You both sound like the personification of mediocrity and full of crap.
 






Anonymous said:
Now you sound like a man! Do you really think people don't know what their spouse is doing when they come home 'so relaxed' and life goes back to 'normal' but whatever excuse works for you. That life is behind me now, as is he. Shit like that usually deteriorates any kind of a marriage or relationship. I take responsibility for my part. Sneaking around is not a building block for a happy life.
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When you're flown to a meeting that you'd really rather not go to, then crammed into a hotel that you'd rather not be in in a city you don't care for, it isn't exactly 'sneaking around', more like making the best out of a bad situation. I hooked up once a year with a rep from NYC at our annual POA for 4 years - so 4 times. They left the company so haven't seen that person since. Neither one misses the other but it was very good sex and the only good part of a bad week. I'm glad we had that together. It was fun.

I was also very happy to get home and would have preferred not to have gone each time. Sex isn't the only thing but it's a nice thing.
 






Anonymous said:
What's pitiful is that you think people are sitting around waiting for the opportunity to have sex with someone else. That isn't the case at all. What happens is, you're assigned a meeting (not your choice), you're apart, the opportunity presents itself and you end up enjoying a relaxing roll in the hay with someone. I's like a day at the spa or a mini vacation. It isn't that big of a deal. Then you go home and life goes back to normal. And this is true for both a man and for a woman.

My husband and I both are in pharma. We both go to meetings. I have no idea if he has ever had a 'sexperience' while at a meeting and he has no idea if I have. Neither of us has ever asked - and - if a few day fling has ever occurred, it certainly hasn't affected our marriage. In fact it probably strengthened it.
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What was pitiful was watching my husband getting ready for those meetings, new underwear, haircut, cologne, trimming his pubes, picking out his best shirts and ties. One time I saw a box of condoms he didn't hide too well in his luggage, but at least he wore them when 'the opportunity presented itself.' Not enough showers in the world can wash the smell off. I wanted to throw up when he came home. We took turns in pharma because of kids, not always having the same jobs at the same time. I went to plenty of those meetings and had plenty of opportunities presented to me. I took up a couple and when it came down to it, it was not what I wanted to live with. He never changed and I just moved on. I'm with someone now who doesn't need to sneak around because he and I have a way that we find mutually works for us. Too bad for my ex. His new wife cheats on him, all our friends know. What goes around.
 






Anonymous said:
When you're flown to a meeting that you'd really rather not go to, then crammed into a hotel that you'd rather not be in in a city you don't care for, it isn't exactly 'sneaking around', more like making the best out of a bad situation. I hooked up once a year with a rep from NYC at our annual POA for 4 years - so 4 times. They left the company so haven't seen that person since. Neither one misses the other but it was very good sex and the only good part of a bad week. I'm glad we had that together. It was fun.

I was also very happy to get home and would have preferred not to have gone each time. Sex isn't the only thing but it's a nice thing.
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Isn't that so great that you made the best out of a situation you were not happy being in. Good rational thinking. You must really be a prince.
 












Listen up! I'm a married woman who goes to meetings and seeks out the poor suckers who drool over me. I can't get enough at home so I like picking out good looking guys that do anything I want and go home feeling much more relaxed. Does that make me a dude?
 












Anonymous said:
Listen up! I'm a married woman who goes to meetings and seeks out the poor suckers who drool over me. I can't get enough at home so I like picking out good looking guys that do anything I want and go home feeling much more relaxed. Does that make me a dude?
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Hell no, it makes you a woman who is honest with herself and doesn't bring home her frustrations, then take them out on everyone. Good for you.
 




































Anonymous said:
When you're flown to a meeting that you'd really rather not go to, then crammed into a hotel that you'd rather not be in in a city you don't care for, it isn't exactly 'sneaking around', more like making the best out of a bad situation. I hooked up once a year with a rep from NYC at our annual POA for 4 years - so 4 times. They left the company so haven't seen that person since. Neither one misses the other but it was very good sex and the only good part of a bad week. I'm glad we had that together. It was fun.

I was also very happy to get home and would have preferred not to have gone each time. Sex isn't the only thing but it's a nice thing.
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Why wait for an out of town meeting? There are ways. You obviously think it's not sneaking around but are making the best out of a bad situation.
 






Anonymous said:
Why wait for an out of town meeting? There are ways. You obviously think it's not sneaking around but are making the best out of a bad situation.
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We do it without sneaking around. So far we've had 3 different female partners. One (the first) was a one-timer we met at a fine resort in Cabo. Then we hooked up with another who we've seen a for the past 3 years at least twice a year, one year 4 times. Then we hooked up with another one 4 times one year (once every three months). We haven't done a couple yet but who knows. The fun is, no secrets and watching. We're still looking for more together. What a kick.
 






Anonymous said:
We do it without sneaking around. So far we've had 3 different female partners. One (the first) was a one-timer we met at a fine resort in Cabo. Then we hooked up with another who we've seen a for the past 3 years at least twice a year, one year 4 times. Then we hooked up with another one 4 times one year (once every three months). We haven't done a couple yet but who knows. The fun is, no secrets and watching. We're still looking for more together. What a kick.
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Then I would say you are a lucky person. My husband would never go for that. I would and would love to try it with another woman and with another man. In the meantime since hubby won't go for it, I'm stuck.
 


















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