Never give up anything for a deity or a religion. I would only give something up so my pleasure would be increased when I get it back. Let's take control for example. When your wife or girlfriend invites her best girlfriend over and they restrain you on a bed, strip you slowly and then indulge in pleasurable behavior, your control is gone but your desire screams out. It burns, slowly at first as you watch them, wishing you could partake. You can't - unless or until they decide to allow you. The fire grows, it becomes red hot, then while hot - your lower body bulges about to explode.
Think about it ....... the longing...... the desire...... the burning......
What would you do for them in order to have them be good to you?
What would you do for them in order to have them pleasure you?
What would you do when you are on fire with lust?
What?