On this topic, here's my 'bitchelatte' for today.
I've lost 20 lbs over the past 2 1/2 months and yesterday, decided to clean my shirt/sweater closet. I took about a dozen shirts and sweaters, all clean, all hung on nice hangers to Salvation Army (probably $500 retail, clean, good, warm, used clothing). I waited and waited at the back door drop off. Finally I yoo hood and then whistled a few times. After about what seemed like 10 minutes, a guy appears and he's visibly pissed - 1st) because I whistled and 2nd because the clothes weren't in a plastic bag. His attitude was just plain nasty and he informed me that clothes not in bags 'just get thrown away'. So I bit my tongue, tried being nice and asked if I should take them home, bag them and bring them back another time since I have another closet to clean out. This pisses him off even more and he says, "No - I'll try to find a bag." and glares at me.
By then I'm pissed and almost grabbed them back to take them to another charity but tried to imagine someone getting good use of the clothes and figuring that need was more important than my ego. I realize, he's probably in recovery and volunteering and maybe in a bad mood this morning but attitude speaks louder than words and I'm thinking this weekend, when I clean out the other closet, I'll just find another charity.
There's an old saying my momma taught me, "Don't look a gift horse in the mouth."
Any comments?