Taming Your Partner.....

I also think that people don't spend enough time with foreplay. Just lying next to sometime talking, touching, caressing is the best segue to an exciting love-making session. It completes everything. Granted, we sometimes just want a quickie which are great as well.:rolleyes:

Agree on the talking as foreplay. It can even be writing as in e-mailing or note passing.

One of the most romantic and erotic experiences I've had began with e-mailing someone that I'd never met. The verbal flirting and foreplay lasted 6 months. By the time we met the caldron was bubbling over. It was better than the best dessert.

Other things like note passing are fabulous as well if provocative. On Valentine's Day I was having lunch with the woman I've been seeing awhile and after a glass of wine, she passed me a note that read - "You look really delicious today, I'd like to know if you'd be interested in fucking my brains out later. No words, just nod yes or no.

Needless to say that changed the lunch and the conversation and it was very arousing. I still have the note.
 






Actually, there is nothing like really good conversation and flirting to get it going to the extreme. Let's remember the most sensual sex organ is THE BRAIN. I love it when my man can make me feel sexy, smart and desired with conversation. Sometimes I think this is the first thing to go in a relationship yet we think it is the act that's missing. No sex at home is usually a symptom of the relationship either falling apart or the partners not making conversation and down time together a priority. (Good job, Scarlett!)
 






Actually, there is nothing like really good conversation and flirting to get it going to the extreme. Let's remember the most sensual sex organ is THE BRAIN. I love it when my man can make me feel sexy, smart and desired with conversation. Sometimes I think this is the first thing to go in a relationship yet we think it is the act that's missing. No sex at home is usually a symptom of the relationship either falling apart or the partners not making conversation and down time together a priority. (Good job, Scarlett!)

the most sensual sex organ is THE BRAIN


after which comes the tongue.
 






Actually, there is nothing like really good conversation and flirting to get it going to the extreme. Let's remember the most sensual sex organ is THE BRAIN. I love it when my man can make me feel sexy, smart and desired with conversation. Sometimes I think this is the first thing to go in a relationship yet we think it is the act that's missing. No sex at home is usually a symptom of the relationship either falling apart or the partners not making conversation and down time together a priority. (Good job, Scarlett!)

THE BRAIN!! This is where is starts. All the messages get processed and translate to an attraction - or not.

Hence why we all need to be stimulated verbally. The communication sustains the relationship when the sex stops, and so on.
 






Agree on the talking as foreplay. It can even be writing as in e-mailing or note passing.

One of the most romantic and erotic experiences I've had began with e-mailing someone that I'd never met. The verbal flirting and foreplay lasted 6 months. By the time we met the caldron was bubbling over. It was better than the best dessert.

Other things like note passing are fabulous as well if provocative. On Valentine's Day I was having lunch with the woman I've been seeing awhile and after a glass of wine, she passed me a note that read - "You look really delicious today, I'd like to know if you'd be interested in fucking my brains out later. No words, just nod yes or no.

Needless to say that changed the lunch and the conversation and it was very arousing. I still have the note.

You are quite the adventurer aren't you Vag?
 












Since I have friends - of both sexes, we talk sometimes. Do you have any friends honeybuns?

I feel that people should spend 'more' time on it. It would enhance the whole experience.

For the last question...yes...I certainly DO know that men love BJs. Here's a secret....I enjoy giving them as well very much. Nothing like having a woman in that moment(s) give pleasure to ...and control what's happening to a man.

Are you opposed to women enjoying themselves and knowing what they want?

Here's a view on life that more folks - men and women - would do well to own. I don't understand why many cannot talk about this subject with those that they love the most. At least then you can know the boundaries and make your choices accordingly.
 






Actually, there is nothing like really good conversation and flirting to get it going to the extreme. Let's remember the most sensual sex organ is THE BRAIN. I love it when my man can make me feel sexy, smart and desired with conversation. Sometimes I think this is the first thing to go in a relationship yet we think it is the act that's missing. No sex at home is usually a symptom of the relationship either falling apart or the partners not making conversation and down time together a priority. (Good job, Scarlett!)

Conversation can also translate into foreplay - Each partner knows when the talk is headed in that certain direction over a few drinks . . . Good job, GG!

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Here's a view on life that more folks - men and women - would do well to own. I don't understand why many cannot talk about this subject with those that they love the most. At least then you can know the boundaries and make your choices accordingly.

Hey Hoops, I agree in general but some people aren't 'in love' or have 'hooked up' with someone and the interest has faded.

For example, I'm dating someone, no way am I in love but we have a sex life and an exclusive relationship at the moment. She knows all about CP and is fine with the fact I discuss sex and other topics here. She discusses the same with her girlfriends. Sometimes ideas come from outside a diad. Take a look at Cosmopolitan magazine sometime when you're in line at the grocery store. They have way franker discussions there than here and millions of women read it. So sharing sex tips is nothing new and just because people are sharing here (anon) doesn't mean they don't talk to their SO, SSO or spouse about it.
 












I also remember some very negative comments about the thread I began a day after a CBS primetime news report regarding the age of consent. This topic was covered in depth on national prime time television but yourself (and others) were mortified that I would discuss it on an anonymous blog.

I decided to bow and drop the subject and I'm not pissed but I see a slight discrepancy here with your remarks in this post.

Huh? How is the judging thread related to the age of consent thread? The only thing I remember about the age of consent thread was that I refused to let Roman Polanski off the hook. Other than that, I don't remember it.....and I don't think I (and I doubt anyone else, either) want to re-visit it.

I was not mortified that you brought the subject up in a thread. No subject mortifies me. I was surprised by posters wanting to forgive and forget what Roman Polanski did. Just my opinion, and I am entitled to it.

Don't fuck it up, Vag, we've been getting along lately.
 
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Huh? How is the judging thread related to the age of consent thread? The only thing I remember about the age of consent thread was that I refused to let Roman Polanski off the hook. Other than that, I don't remember it.....and I don't think I (and I doubt anyone else, either) want to re-visit it.

I was not mortified that you brought the subject up in a thread. No subject mortifies me. I was surprised by posters wanting to forgive and forget what Roman Polanski did. Just my opinion, and I am entitled to it.

Don't fuck it up, Vag, we've been getting along lately.

OK but if you get your pigtails too close to an inkwell, I'll be tempted to dunk 'em. :cool:
 






Since I have friends - of both sexes, we talk sometimes. Do you have any friends honeybuns?

I feel that people should spend 'more' time on it. It would enhance the whole experience.

For the last question...yes...I certainly DO know that men love BJs. Here's a secret....I enjoy giving them as well very much. Nothing like having a woman in that moment(s) give pleasure to ...and control what's happening to a man.

Are you opposed to women enjoying themselves and knowing what they want?

You can tell when a woman loves it, and most of my women have enjoyed my oral skills because I love it. When a sweet little pussy is well-kept, you will have my attention for hours on end.

Here's an out there question. Ladies, will your men go back down on you after he's cum inside you? That's love, that's intimacy.
 












Honestly, I don't prefer it but will leave it at that.

You have to be caught up in the moment, and really into the person you are with. I would never do it with my wife, as going down there pre-cum is bad enough. Sometimes, you just have to succumb to animal sex Scarlett.