Serious discussion about ED

[HardToCaptureOne]

I was one of the anon posters on the famous pharma (MILFs) thread that moved over here to Playground. We were no longer allowed to post anon and those of us who were gettting useful information had to either show their avatar or sign up for one. I would like to keep an intelligent discussion going regarding this subject.

 

[HardToCaptureOne]

I was one of the anon posters on the famous pharma (MILFs) thread that moved over here to Playground. We were no longer allowed to post anon and those of us who were gettting useful information had to either show their avatar or sign up for one. I would like to keep an intelligent discussion going regarding this subject.

Now that I can actually see my post I guess I didn't pick a very good name!

 

[Saint Misbehavin']

I was one of the anon posters on the famous pharma (MILFs) thread that moved over here to Playground. We were no longer allowed to post anon and those of us who were gettting useful information had to either show their avatar or sign up for one. I would like to keep an intelligent discussion going regarding this subject.

The problem is, there is one stalker here who makes the topic of sex difficult to have a serious public discussion about due to his main enjoyment seems to be ridiculing others and judgment on his personal religious grounds. Trust me, it almost isn't worth it with him in the mix. I have tried PMing you to no avail and have entered a question to the mods. We shall see. Later, SM

 

[Saint Misbehavin']

Now that I can actually see my post I guess I didn't pick a very good name!

 

[Drug Dumper]

The problem is, there is one stalker here who makes the topic of sex difficult to have a serious public discussion about due to his main enjoyment seems to be ridiculing others and judgment on his personal religious grounds. Trust me, it almost isn't worth it with him in the mix. I have tried PMing you to no avail and have entered a question to the mods. We shall see. Later, SM

It (the poser) you refer to has not been on that much lately. It appears he's become bored and "just can't" come back......I put it on ignore, so I don't see posts from it.

 

[libluvsbukkake]

Swing Clubs are awesome too Vag. It's like being on a porn set, AND getting to participate.

 

[HardToCaptureOne]

I brought up the subject regarding the use of Tadalafil or Sildenafil on another anon thread. Here are excerpts of some of my answers:

“My husband has ED problems and takes it when he wants to have an erection and ejaculation. It's fine for him but he can't get it hard enough to enter me and give me a good ride so I can orgasm too. It's not difficult for me to orgasm so please no jokes here. Any suggestions? We've tried a lot of different things to keep him hard but he just can't hold on long enough to at least try to come inside me. I'm frustrated about this especially when I see commercials that show such 'happy' women and handsome rugged looking men that act so satisfied are annoying to me. I think they are one sided drugs for HIS pleasure, not hers!”

There were several responses; some were stupid attempts at humor and a few seemed to be very sincere. One of my edited responses to a poster addressed several of his suggestions:


“Thank you for your honesty in response. That is all good information and should be made available to everyone. I bet there are more than a few people on this thread now who have found this a common interest.

1) As I said, I am a nurse and well versed in all the options. His T counts are all in a good range (not even normal low) because we supplement. We have tried the timed release pellets and he likes the results the best, although there is a sore butt factor there! The shots are unpredictable for him, especially when there is alcohol involved and although he has cut down we both still enjoy a drink or two pre-coital attempt. He uses the cream sometimes toward the end of a cycle. I have access to a lab and we have experimented at different times under different circumstances checking levels.

We have tried injectables combined with the drug he is able to get a good enough erection but can’t seem to get beyond the oral. I’m curious though about the other injectibles and will be looking into it immediately! He has a pretty good urologist who works with us and would be willing to let us try anything not detrimental to his health which is pretty good.

2) An affair? Don’t think I haven’t thought of it for my own selfish reasons. I don’t think an escort would be something I would like to try but am open to new sexual experiences which could include a woman or a man. My husband is definitely not into men though. I guess I’d be on my own for that which I don’t think is fair but I don’t want to threaten his masculinity which is pretty fragile these days.

3) Lots of oral and toys in our bedroom (and other places)

4) We have talked about an implant as a possibility also and know the risks and the importance of being together on this procedure for the duration.

And----
5) I am one of the anon posters who saw the old thread get moved to the playground just as it was becoming informative. I did start an avatar and made one post but honestly some of the people there are extremely insensitive and like to make a big joke out of everything.”

Please realize that this thread was forced onto the Playground. I know a lot of you know each other and would not be wanting to expose yourselves to ridicule. I am a new poster and am not allowed to use PM until I’m more established here. My posts are moderated until I have a certain number of them or a certain number of days since registration. Personally I think this is a very valid subject but don’t know where to place it to keep it in an anonymous fashion. It’s a shame because this is a pharmaceutical blog site and I’m sure this topic is really of serious interest to many of you out there.

 

[Vagitarian]

I agree with you completely. FYI, since I do have PM privileges, I just tried to send you a PM (Testing 123). I received the following response:

1.HardToCaptureOne has chosen not to receive private messages or may not be allowed to receive private messages. Therefore you may not send your message to him/her.

I do not understand this because I know at lest one new user who has PM privileges and they haven't been around more than a couple of years. It must be a relatively new idea around here.

With that said, I'm sure most people here either have faced these issues or will be in the future. Have you presented your thoughts to the mods via the 'contact us' feature? What I've learned is this - while irritating at times, you get more attention being reasonable than arguing - even though arguing seems reasonable - does that make sense?

Meanwhile maybe look for another anon board? I will too. I know others (medically oriented vs wisecrackers) who would probably be interested. I mean we're already all having sex it's a natural part of life) we just want it to be as good as possible. And that's also very natural.

 

[HardToCaptureOne]

I agree with you completely. FYI, since I do have PM privileges, I just tried to send you a PM (Testing 123). I received the following response:

1.HardToCaptureOne has chosen not to receive private messages or may not be allowed to receive private messages. Therefore you may not send your message to him/her.

I do not understand this because I know at lest one new user who has PM privileges and they haven't been around more than a couple of years. It must be a relatively new idea around here.

With that said, I'm sure most people here either have faced these issues or will be in the future. Have you presented your thoughts to the mods via the 'contact us' feature? What I've learned is this - while irritating at times, you get more attention being reasonable than arguing - even though arguing seems reasonable - does that make sense?

Meanwhile maybe look for another anon board? I will too. I know others (medically oriented vs wisecrackers) who would probably be interested. I mean we're already all having sex it's a natural part of life) we just want it to be as good as possible. And that's also very natural.

Maybe it is a new thing here. I DID contact the mods. I still do not have PM privledges. I have not CHOSEN to not receive, I am not ALLOWED to receive, YET. I don't know why I was particularly selected to be moderated. I don't think I've said anything offensive. I guess I will have to wait until a) I have made enough posts or b) days since registration. So I will wait it out I guess. You will be the first one I PM. I don't know of another anon board other than the one I was posting on and the subject was relative to a product they sell. I'm also interested in some of the other "ideas" that were presented that are not necessarily pharma oriented.

 

[Vagitarian]

Maybe it is a new thing here. I DID contact the mods. I still do not have PM privledges. I have not CHOSEN to not receive, I am not ALLOWED to receive, YET. I don't know why I was particularly selected to be moderated. I don't think I've said anything offensive. I guess I will have to wait until a) I have made enough posts or b) days since registration. So I will wait it out I guess. You will be the first one I PM. I don't know of another anon board other than the one I was posting on and the subject was relative to a product they sell. I'm also interested in some of the other "ideas" that were presented that are not necessarily pharma oriented.

There's a 'Fitness & Nutrition' board that RPs have posted on as well as anons - one thread was low 'libido'. Maybe they'd allow a thread on your topic posting there? Maybe ask them first or just try it. This board hasn't been used as much as the Pfizer board and let's face it, Pfizer may have complained? This one isn't a company board. Just a thought, worth a try?

 

[HardToCaptureOne]

Maybe it is a new thing here. I DID contact the mods. I still do not have PM privledges. I have not CHOSEN to not receive, I am not ALLOWED to receive, YET. I don't know why I was particularly selected to be moderated. I don't think I've said anything offensive. I guess I will have to wait until a) I have made enough posts or b) days since registration. So I will wait it out I guess. You will be the first one I PM. I don't know of another anon board other than the one I was posting on and the subject was relative to a product they sell. I'm also interested in some of the other "ideas" that were presented that are not necessarily pharma oriented.

Privileges granted finally!

 

[Wonka]

http://youtu.be/En5PJCehkn0

 

[libluvsbukkake]

Wonka my Man, where have you been? Always love your perspective on these things. Got to ETA yesterday. How has your play life been. You can back me up on the Awesomeness of Swing Clubs, I am sure.

 

[Vagitarian]

The causes from RD range from too much to drink to being nervous to aging to familiarity with the same partner. As far as cures go or ways to reverser it, this certainly works for many. It must be like 'porn in person' so if you like porn (or nudity) it should be titillating. We have never been to a 'club' but we've talked about it and thought about it. We've done a few other things though that have been VERY titillating. A back room strip club adventure in Cabo being one of them. The stripper' at my VERY private retirement party being another. In fact if I was still working, I'd retire again.

 

[HardToCaptureOne]

So I guess that there really can't be a serious discussion on this thread that was moved out of anonymity to the characters playground, at least from the men. If anyone has any useful information please feel free to PM me. There was one anon poster that had some helpful advise though.

 

[libluvsbukkake]

So I guess that there really can't be a serious discussion on this thread that was moved out of anonymity to the characters playground, at least from the men. If anyone has any useful information please feel free to PM me. There was one anon poster that had some helpful advise though.

Vag just gave you a serious solution and a Man's point of view, as to what the causes are. Too many Women these days, think that just laying and accommodating, is enough for Men Post 50. Sex goes to the Brain, much like a Woman, when a Man is in his 50's. He craves (and should give), the kind of touch and romance that you have always wanted. Try dressing and being his slut one night, and see if that cures the problem. Keep it interesting. Be daring with him. Remember, it's in his Brain, not in his dick anymore.

 

[Vagitarian]

In post #10 HTCO says I will be the 1st she PMs when she is cleared. I have yet to receive that PM.

As stated before:
1) Dealing with ED - meds, interest & titillation, final try - implant
2) Another approach if that doesn't work is making sure the woman has an orgasm another way - oral technique, manual (vibrator/sybian)
3) In the titillation department - maybe porn or adding another live partner into the mix.

Like I said, I have not received the PM from this poster mentioned in Post #10 I so am suspicious at this point.

 

[HardToCaptureOne]

Vag just gave you a serious solution and a Man's point of view, as to what the causes are. Too many Women these days, think that just laying and accommodating, is enough for Men Post 50. Sex goes to the Brain, much like a Woman, when a Man is in his 50's. He craves (and should give), the kind of touch and romance that you have always wanted. Try dressing and being his slut one night, and see if that cures the problem. Keep it interesting. Be daring with him. Remember, it's in his Brain, not in his dick anymore.

Thank you for that but I/we've had an exciting sex life and have tried all of the above and more. I guarantee you that he would say the same and have no complaints in the experimental side. In our case the Brain is not the problem. I'm basically seeking medical and other advice. But thanks for your input.

 

[HardToCaptureOne]

In post #10 HTCO says I will be the 1st she PMs when she is cleared. I have yet to receive that PM.

As stated before:
1) Dealing with ED - meds, interest & titillation, final try - implant
2) Another approach if that doesn't work is making sure the woman has an orgasm another way - oral technique, manual (vibrator/sybian)
3) In the titillation department - maybe porn or adding another live partner into the mix.

Like I said, I have not received the PM from this poster mentioned in Post #10 I so am suspicious at this point.

OK, sorry. Said to another poster have tried several of the above. PMing is new to me now. I will try.

 

[Wonka]

To the OP.

I'm an RN too. Go to a Urologists and a Neurologists. Might need some evoked potentials. Relax a little, we're just having fun. If anyone here could give you the magic answer, we would.

@ Libs - Doing okay. Working a lot. 60+ hours a week. Real hours not pharma hours. Had a very expensive night at Polekatz in Chicago on Friday. Drank more than I think I ever had and definitely had more tail in 1 night than I ever had.

Abandoned a few months ago by the one I served, which has been really hard to deal with. Us slaves fall really hard and to be abandoned has been rough. Pretty much over it now, just looking for a new master and hurt that someone could walk away from you without saying a word. She was a hard core sociopath though.