you have to pursue your passion; what do all your friends and family say you are naturally skilled? public speaking, consulting, listening, numbers crunching, etc.?
you have to recreate yourself, talk to trusted friends, ask them what they think you would be good at, they are great sounding boards
find out what you really like to do and success will follow
i am sure there will be numerous posts about porn, or choking on something as a profession, working with sal and richard, grabbing chub, fluffer, etc, please, impress us with your bathroom humor... this ship will sink and many of you would be better off figuring out your next move now vs later